The golden silence

Today i was  listening one of kenyan media station and an interesting story came up.one woman complained about her husband not telling her, where he works.This is a situation among many which is believed to exist where couples lose trust of one another.for instance there is disagreement bwtn the two..The man or the woman  takes the issue to work place in due course of searching for solution..is this one of the reason why pple don't trust their partners. or its because, if he or she finds out where you work as a fundi while u cheats to be a lawyer you are likely to loose her..its a story  that have many questions   than answers.. give bettar advice